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Exploring the Parent-Child-Nature Relationship

Reflections, Readings and Research

Let's Get Outside and Play!

5/22/2017

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May 27th, 2017- June 3rd, 2017 is "Get Outside and Play" week in Alberta, Canada! 

​Get Outside and Play week is an invitation to celebrate outdoor play in the early years. The Alberta Council for Environmental Education, ACEE, is spearheading this province wide initiative to support and engage families, early childhood educators and communities in outdoor play spaces. 

Why: Unstructured outdoor play has increasingly been observed to be a missing piece of childhood today. Benefits of unstructured outdoor play for children can include a developing sense of self-competence, increasing physical literacy, sparking curiosity and inquiry,  connecting to other living things, developing a sense of place in a community and fostering social and problem solving skills... to name a few.

So how can adults help provide opportunities to get outside and play for the children in their lives?

1. The first ingredient is dedicating time.

Dedicating time to outdoor play is something that may take practice, for the whole family, and rest assured that you can start small! In addition you will have the inspiration of spring and warmer weather on your side to start practicing! 

Some simple examples include: backyard picnics, reading a book outside together, build a fort in your backyard, paint rocks, go on a ladybug or worm 'hunt' in your backyard and beyond.

Once you've dedicated time to outdoor play, here are some quick tips:

- Rest assured that you do not need to know all the answers when exploring the outdoors with your child.  Demonstrating curiosity and encouraging your child's questions can go a long way in generating meaningful outdoor experiences for your family. 

-Bring snacks!

- Welcome the opportunity to adjust your pace and level of observation to your child's. You may experience a whole new world of exploration and an appreciation for the smaller things.

- Let nature supply the ingredients, and together with your child, you make the recipe! In other words let the natural world help facilitate the experience for your family! You may be surprised by where your interests lead!

​-Bring snacks!

- Follow your child's lead. This may take some practice (and that's ok!). Following the child's lead will also help to enhance the previous tips. You may also find there are surprising benefits for both adult and child as a result! I have found it has led to some surprising opportunities for bonding and understanding between my son, myself and in our relationship.

For any adult who may still be feeling apprehensive about setting off in the outdoors with a child this spring, here is a final quote from Rachel Carson, a scientist and advocate for exploring the outdoors with young children, in hopes to provide some reassurance:

“Exploring nature with your child is largely a matter of becoming receptive to what lies all around you. It is learning again to use your eyes, ears, nostrils, and finger tips, opening up the disused channels of sensory impression.” Rachel Carson - 1956 

For more information, resources and how to participate in the "Get Outside and Play" week please visit: www.abcee.org/getoutsideandplay
Did I mention PRIZES!?

In Calgary? Come to the Get Outside and Play week launch event!
When: May 28th, 2017 from 11:30 - 3:00
Where: Pearce Estate Park, Calgary AB
Who: Families
What: Family picnic, Mountain Wit Theatre and outdoor family activities!
www.abcee.org/launch2017
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Have fun this spring exploring your family's natural inclinations in the outdoors!

​Alex
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Choose Your Own Urban Wild Winter Adventure!

11/21/2016

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Often a change in weather — to colder and shorter days, can pose some challenges to getting our family nature grooves on. It's cozier inside, close to comforts and other seasonal family activities. I totally get it, it happens to everyone — even those of us who eagerly anticipate the coming snow!

To support your winter family adventures I wanted to share a list of my favourite parks to visit with my family nature club during the winter. In addition I have also shared some fun nature inspired winter activities you can match-up with your park visits!  

​So here goes...

The first Urban Wild Family Nature Club: "Choose Your Own Adventure"!

Mix and Match Parks and Activities Below for    

​Some Winter Family Fun!



Parks to Inspire Winter Wonder;

1. Pearce Estate Park, SE
Fire pits, picnic sites, animal viewing blind and access, with admission, to the Bow Habitat Station (washrooms, cafe and nature inspired exhibits!) ​www.calgary.ca/CSPS/Parks/Pages/Locations/SE-parks/Pearce-Estate-Park.aspx
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​Bow Habitat Station:

aep.alberta.ca/recreation-public-use/bow-habitat-station/default.aspx

​2. Sandy Beach, SW  
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Fire pits, picnic sites,  picnic shelter
www.calgary.ca/CSPS/Parks/Pages/Locations/SW-parks/Sandy-Beach.aspx

3. Bebo Grove, Fish Creek Provincial Park, SW​
2020 Construction Closure
Old spruce forest with fire pits, picnic sites and year round *heated washroom facilities!
www.albertaparks.ca/fish-creek/information-facilities/day-use/bebo-grove/
Alternatively try Shannon Terrace
 or Votiers Flats in Fish Creek Provincial Park 

4. Bowness Park, NW
Fire pits, great play structure, picnic sites, picnic shelter and don't forget skating at Bowness Lagoon.
www.calgary.ca/CSPS/Parks/Pages/Locations/NW-parks/Bowness-Park.aspx

5. Confederation Park, NW
No fires. Great tobogganing and loops for walking.
For tobogganing park at the Rosemount Community Association Parking Lot off of 10th St NW
www.calgary.ca/CSPS/Parks/Pages/Locations/NW-parks/Confederation-Park.aspx

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6. Your own backyard and community!





Inspire your Nature Grooviness:

  • ​Animal Tracks Detective Spray: Grab a spray bottle. Mix water with a few drops of food colouring. Look for animal tracks and give them a light spray for 'detection'. You can discuss size, possible animal and direction of travel!

  • Ice Cube Hunt: Freeze ice cubes using a few drops of food colouring. Have yourself a scavenger hunt with your coloured ice cubes while on your walk! You can relate this activity to animals in winter searching for food. I like to relate it to red squirrels looking for cones they stored during the fall or Chickadees searching for winter snacks.

  • ​Frame Nature: Take a medium or large paper plate and cut out the centre. This will be your nature frame. Go out and frame nature with your family and share what you find interesting and beautiful about your winter surroundings.

  • Winter Colours: Grab some paint swatches from your local paint aisle and bring them out to look for winter colours. You'll be surprised by all the colours you'll find...not just white and green!

  • ​Play Dough Prints: Go out on your urban wild adventure with a fist full of play dough and make some nature prints! (Can get sticky when wet from snow).

  • Magnify the Winter Sparkle: Bring some magnify glasses or magnify sheets to check out snowflake shapes and sparkles. Or  just follow your nose and magnify anything that catches your eye!

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Tension to Cooperation

11/4/2016

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Yesterday I strolled along a rocky reservoir shore with my 4 year old. The day had previously been infused with grumpy moments for both of us. There had been a tension between us all day. It was hard to make light of the smallest things and the air was filled with do's, don'ts and wants.

What struck me while we launched driftwood into the water was how we had drifted ourselves, almost unnoticed, from tension to play and cooperation.  We watched our driftwood boats tip and turn in the waves and finally return to the shore only to be launched again — this time with canon balls of rocks to dodge!

We were both taking turns leading the play — both accepting and nourishing  each other's ideas.

As we walked back, my son took me on a "secret path" along the shore which looped us further away from our destination (the car). We did the loop again with him insisting and leading the way! There was not a word about his wet feet and wet pants past his knees... 

We returned home both lighter and connected.

It seems the natural world supports and accepts our moods, how ever we arrive, and gently drifts us to a calmer and more connected place.

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Nature Experiences, Fear and  Emotional Connections

9/5/2016

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​ There are many emotions that can be experienced and expressed in a natural environment for ourselves and for our children. Sometimes they are shared and sometimes they offer the opportunity for a deep sharing between parent and child.

Something that I continue to learn about is the phenomena of fear experienced in the natural world; my own, my child's and in other parent-child- nature relationships. There is something raw and beautiful that can occur when fear is expressed within the parent-child-nature relationship that I have experienced and observed.

I've learned how nature experiences can engage fear, often in specific unwanted animal encounters.  And with the insights shared from other parents, I've learned how nature can support us in moving beyond our fear. In other words, in natural settings the emotion of fear can be experienced and expressed and with thoughtful and present parental connection around the next corner a nature expereince can offer intrigue, curiosity and laughter. 

Snakes to ground squirrels
Protective geese families to wild flowers
Potential bears to rocks (shapes, colours and skipping into water)


Ultimately as parents, we want to protect our children from experiencing fear and as a parent motivated to cultivate a bond with the natural world for my son, fear is typically something I try to avoid while setting out on our urban wild adventures..

But hey, it happens. It's raw, it's natural and it can offer an opportunity for connection, understanding and trust between parent, child and the natural world. 

I think the natural world provides the parent-child relationship the space to experience a spectrum of emotions and the opportunity to find a way to articulate, express and understand them. The experiences we have in the natural world can  promote a healthy dialogue about emotions, what we can learn from them and how we can  move with them and sometimes beyond them — offering connection and resiliency in ourselves and in our parent-child-nature relationship.


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 Parenting in Nature and Developing a Thoughtful Pedagogy

7/29/2016

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"The simple point is this: it is pedagogy that makes the crucial difference in a child's life." Max van Manen (Pedagogical Tact, 2015, p.19)
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Max van Manen's book "Pedogogical Tact: Knowing what to do when you don't know what to do" (2015), is cultivating a lot of connections for me between the parent-child-nature relationship and a type of  "pedagogical thoughtfulness" (p.11) that may emerge from this experience. I can think back to my own reflections on the parent-child-nature relationship and the actions and insights of participating parents in my family nature club study and find examples of what I believe could be a type of "sensitive personal pedagogy" (p.11) developing for individuals.

What is pedagogy? I assumed I knew...something to do with the act of teaching...maybe?

 Van Manen describes pedagogy as a reflective process of determining appropriate and inappropriate "ways of acting and interacting with children" (p.33).  He describes this process as often ethical in nature and involves uncertainty and  "the doubting, questioning, and reflecting on our actions and practices" (p.33). Who can't identify with this as a parent!!? Elsewhere in the book, Van Manen refers to this process as a type of "pedagogical wondering" (p.18)

According to Van Manen pedagogy, as a notion, is rarely used in the educational English language community and thus there is an opportunity to develop a pedagogical language that is   "a more sensitive attuning to the reality of the adult-child relations." (p.11). This "sensitive attuning" may speak to some of the experiences we had as parents reflecting on the parent-child-nature relationship during my study. Such an example emerging from my study maybe in the experience described by participating parents as the parent and child learning and growing together — a kind of reciprocating pedagogy.

This is so exciting for me in this phase of my research! It makes me think that possibly nature as partner in the adult-child reality has a role to play in influencing pedagogy or "pedagogical tact".  Or at least is a platform to isolate and explore the parent-child relation and how a pedagogy may develop.

Perhaps the PCN relationship provides the parent an opportunity to explore their own "sensitive personal pedagogy" or "thoughtful pedagogy" with their child or children. I think this could be an interesting angle in my analysis in my research.

As part of my analysis, there could be an opportunity to identify "pedagogical moments" (p.35) in the experience of the PCN relationship for families who participated in this study. Van Manen describes a pedagogical moment as "...the ability to actively distinguish what is good or appropriate from what is less suited or inappropriate for children or young people in a particular moment" (p.35)

Other quotes that ground and provoke ideas around a "thoughtful pedagogy" emerging around the PCN relationship from the book so far:

"The practice of cultivating one's pedagogical thoughfulnesss and tact is the response to the challenge of approaching each situation with respect and attentiveness" (p.35)

"It is knowledge that issues from the heart as well as from the head" (p.35)

Phenomenological Reflections on Pedagogy or Pedagogical Stories p.14

"...long-term latency of pedagogical events belongs to the silent secrets of the narrative themes of our lives." (p.16)

"Of course, the child also influence the adult. The pedagogical relation is complex, and in part it signifies also a process of self-development and self-understanding for the adult" (p.17)

"...the unfolding of our pedagogic nature." (p.19)

"Upon reflection the meaning of pedagogy in the adult-child relation is profoundly enigmatic." (p.20)

"...I use the term "pedagogy" to refer to this primordial adult-child relation that is biological and cultural, ancient and present, mundane and mysterious, sensuous and sensitive to the ethical demand as it is experienced in pedagogical relations, situations and actions." (p.20)


  
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An Old Relationship & A New Understanding

7/25/2016

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Here, I share some of my concluding take aways from reflecting on my parent-child-nature relationship during this program and study:

  • I set out to build a nature connection for my son. What I discovered is in the end the parent-child-nature (PCN) relationship created the opportunity to reconnect myself to the natural world - which I didn't realize I was missing. Going out into a natural setting with a child as my companion demanded me to slow down, follow another's lead, and experience the curiosities of the natural world through a child.  I'm starting to feel that parental reconnection to the natural world, or perhaps to their former child in nature, has an important role to play in connecting our children. 
 
  •  To symbolize my current appreciation of the PCN relationship, I gravitated towards an old caribou antler as part of a reflection activity during the study's concluding focus group. The growing of the antlers represented the developing PCN relationship with the idea of new 'branches' evolving in this relationship with my son over time. The shedding of the antlers, as part of the natural cycle, symbolizes the shedding of my previous understandings and assumptions as a parent with my child in nature. The fact that this cycle of growing and shedding is an old cycle for the caribou symbolized, for me, that the PCN relationship is an old cycle as well. And that for the purpose of this study we are only giving a name to this old relationship and the time to pay some attention to it through our reflections and develop an appreciation for what it can offer us as parents/families in the new millennium.











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Study Reflection 8                                               Bebo Grove, Fish Creek PP                                 June 18th, 2016

6/20/2016

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 Today was our 8th and final event of the spring program and study. I selected a few closing activities; a drumming "sound and seek" game and a "Hoot" rock ceremony. Of course, water was a big part of our morning too!

Today my senses were filled! 

What I saw:
-A path with fallen obstacles (trees) which were not barriers for families but invitations to hop, climb and explore! 
-Smell containers eagerly filled with forest spices such as: dandelion flowers, fuzzy seeds and leaves, spruce needles, horsetail "leaves", soil and crystallized sap pieces (yum!)
- Deer with soft velvet antlers curious about our drumming sounds and the excitement of the group
-the kiddos patiently waiting for the sound of the drum and then running as a pack through the forest and off the trail to find the drum! Pure magic and joy!
-Children leading and parents following... off the trail
- New kiddos at the front of the pack both young and older running together and taking turns walking over mud on a wood plank.
- Creek excitement - turning attention and strategies to getting across.
- Rocks: tools, shapes, opportunities to build and create

What I feel:
- Excitement. Magic. A welcoming and playful forest.

What I think: There are so many magic spots created along the way where a community of  children convene, test, exchange, explore...these spots are like little eddies along the edges of a river: safe and swirling with activity, then we re-enter the current of the trail. Like an eddy, which is visible in a river, these magic spots in the forest seem to become visible after their discovery by children.




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Study Reflection 7                                                    Jack Rabbit Trail                           June 11, 2016

6/15/2016

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Show me, on my level, and I will happily engage. From grasshoppers to grass-layered cakes. Nature supplies the ingredients and we make the recipe!

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Our adventure is over for today, my hand in yours and my other happily connecting us to the source of our play! 

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Let me lead, and I will show you how to explore and what is important to me. Today I want to climb up away from the group, just you and me and the discovery of a fallen tree!

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Tips on Family Nature Journaling                      

6/15/2016

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At our 7th Urban Wild event we had a special guest from City Parks to come chat with us about starting a family nature journal! We then gave it a try! 

Top Tips:
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- Journal while in nature together
- Find a quiet spot together or let it emerge
- Encourage drawing; do a leaf, cone or bark rubbing; trace a shadow!
- Collect a nature object to reflect on,or simply add to journal
- Discuss/write or draw: "What I see; What I feel; What I think; What I wonder...."
-Go over journal as a family, each member can contribute!
-Nature journalling doesn't have to take place in a journal! Create/build something in nature - nature art, family portrait, fairy home!
- The more you practise the more comfortable it becomes...and fun!! 
- You can make a "sit matt" so family members can sit on the ground comfortably. To create a simple "sit- matt"  take a section of a newspaper and place in a large zip lock bag. A sit-matt can also become a signal for the activity to come - nature journalling or just quiet observation. Some children may even take pride in taking their "sit- matt" to a special spot - a "sit spot". 
Create/build your own journal! String different pieces or paper together and attach with yarn.  
** Cardboard is essential so there is something firm to write and draw on.**
- Have fun, play and experiment! When it's over it's over! 








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Study Reflection 6                                                    June 4th, 2016                                                      Pearce Estate Park

6/5/2016

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For this event my son was sick so he was not present. It gave me an opportunity to observe and participate more with the other families. For my reflection I drew a map of our explorations and activities. But I felt that this didn't reflect the full experience...I still needed words.  So I started to write words to describe the general feeling of the parent-child-nature experience at each activity site. I recognized a total of five activity sites during this event; playground, pond dipping, snack, dock and stream.

​After some experimentation I decided to come up with a bank of words that could describe the various roles that the Parent (P), Child (C) and Nature (N) played in the experience.  

Word Bank
(to describe PCN roles in a specific experience):
  • Facilitator
  • Initiator
  • Supporter
  • Balancer (between risk and safety)
  • Discoverer
  • Collaborator
  • Learner
  • Provider

​Assigning these roles turned out to be a difficult task!  What I realized was that these roles are not always stationary and evolve with the experience as well as often being fluid between parent, child and nature. I recognize that the meaning of these words in the context of the PCN relationship will vary for each parent and that the outcomes for another parent experimenting with this activity would likely be quite different. However I stuck with the plan to assign one word to each partner to see what would happen. I learned something quite important about my understanding of the PCN relationship - which adds to my appreciation of it! I will share my discovery after showing a six pics from this exercise.

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What I realized during this exercise is that nature as a partner in the PCN relationship can often take on the role of "provider" and "facilitator" in the experience.  For me this is so important because I often feel that these roles fall into my domain as the parent. Which can be exhausting and can add stress or create tension between the parent-child relationship. What a relief it is to realize I can lean on nature as a partner to provide these roles, in certain contexts, in an experience for my son! It allows me to step out of this role I take on and provide me with some space to: relieve tension; become present; have some autonomy; or just engage in the stillness or playfulness of it all. 

Some other words I wanted to add to the word bank were: Invitor (this word doesn't exist!), Inventor, Demonstrator, Player, Leader...

However I wanted to keep the list short and I felt that some of the words were starting to overlap!

If you have other words to describe partner roles you have observed or experienced as part of the PCN relationship- I would love to hear them!

​Alex
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